As we begin to become aware of the path we are on, we often begin with shedding old emotional trauma or issues stuck within our bodies. Some of us choose to work on each peace, feel what was there and release. Some choose to let go as much in one sitting as they can and don’t want to look back. Is either one of these techniques wrong? Of course not.
One thing we will eventually find is no matter how we have chosen the blocks to come out, they will come back around. Many will explain this as we haven’t released it all yet or it is a variation and not what you released. To me in the beginning just always seemed to be BS, none of the reasons others gave me made any sense and made it difficult for me to trust. It always seemed like they were pulling it out of thin air trying to justify what they had taught me.
Being empathic made it even harder. Having the ability to feel the healers blocks and issues, made it sometimes difficult to do what I came there for. I would ask if they practiced what they taught and they always said yes. This would make it more difficult to allow for a full release of my issues when I found myself just trying to release the healers issues. Being empathic is a great gift, yet takes a while to get the hang of. I actually found myself at one point going to a Guru type and working through issues, coming home, and then realizing they were all his!! Talk about a waste of a $150 US, lol.
I have since learned this aspect I would love to share. When you release it, it is gone. Life is made of cycles, so somewhere a new experience will present itself to see how you will perceive it or react to it. It may be similar to that of the past, but it is not. This is in order to allow you new perception and not be stuck in old patterns or habits that were self destructive to your being. It is a way for us to say I do not need to be the old victim or I do not need to view life so harshly as I once did. It is an opportunity to replace the neutral energy in the place once filled with negative emotion with a new learning/perception.
Now we come to one of the applications of Softening Judgment. If you allow yourself to soften your emotional trauma feelings, when life comes back around to allow you an opportunity to change your perception, you will find you can easily navigate through your challenge. It allows you a more solid release as you are not tied to your old judgments with the same conviction.
If you soften your judgment during the healing aspect you will see it opens you to the perception of new tools to use on your path. Using simple techniques such as breathing or a number system can help to concrete your decision to be free from your self imposed chains.
Love and Light,
Talking Water
