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The Message- While on our paths we have many challenges to knock us down a notch, to get the physical control of our brain to release its stronghold. Many times the issues and/or trials we have will make us doubt ourselves and our abilities. It is important to understand you in all this, to know what you are capable of and how important you are to the mass in sparking an understanding of Divine Love. You are strong and you have tapped into strengths not many will allow themselves to see.

Having a perception of trauma in our lives can have great impacts on our being and psyche. Why do we have such trauma on our lives? This is different for everyone, but there is a line of truth that can echo in all. It is to strip down your false belief and build your confidence. When you have a traumatic experience it puts you to a point of primitive being. You do not have the ability to utilize your brain in a logical thinking manner. This is a good thing although while you are living both the event and the aftermath it is hard to see as a positive move on a path.

When you are in a fight or flight mode you are all over the place. Everything you know, everything you are, will be under yours and others microscopes. You are forcing yourself to take a look, to learn what it was/is that makes you a person. It is also said to be a way of understanding what love is and what love is not. Many perceptions and truth in all of them. You have the ability to change anything you want as now you have a way, a reason to make it OK as others begin to understand with empathy that you have changed instead of dealing with harsh judgments from them.

It is tough to believe we will agree to do this in order to justify who we are in reality. Many of us have chosen to live a secret life still operating in a mode of old after becoming more aware of your truth. Many do not want to disappoint our parents or chase off friends as they may run away. We tend to be strong unless we feel we are alone in our choice to become aware of truth in this realm. If we feel alone we will create the event to occur in order to help find it for ourselves again, to bring your truth out in the open and many will see it is a quirky coping skill you learned while in therapy. Unfortunately society will accept this much more as a way to cope with trauma, than a truth for you as you found it in the first place.

How do we rebuild our Confidence in ourselves while we are living our truth? As you begin to see there is no longer a need to be the victim and the others around you realize the damage that has occurred to you. You will begin to see you have tools to help reprogram the event to be not so harsh or influence your reality as much. You have had the tools available from the beginning, but the timing has to be right to ensure those you want to stick around will. When it is time to begin your healing it is time to make your steps into the person you once were hiding from the world. To the others around you it will seem as you are dealing with your issues and finding the best avenue for you. They will want this as they Love you! They may still think it is weird, but they will accept it as they want you to become more functional.

As you accept your “self” and understand better the actions of your being that may still persist after the trauma has been dealt with, you will begin to find your old sense of confidence many admired prior to the event. Only this time your confidence will be in a manner of healing, in a manner of your truth you may have been hiding, and in you as a being. You will accept your behavior as the way it is and you can deal with it once you accept you are not a super being able to take on the mass individually.

Rebuilding confidence will take time, but once you have regained it nothing will make it waver again unless you choose to fall back into old patterns of hiding. You will not have to ever experience anything like it if you choose to manifest your truth for you to live and others to see.

Love and Light,

Talking Water